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“Many of the things people do for other people are for the purpose of receiving love in exchange. You may have been taught that love was something you had to earn through your good behavior and through fulfilling other people’s needs. You may have trouble setting boundaries with others, thinking that to do so might hurt their feelings or push away their love. If you think love comes to you only when you earn or deserve it, it is time to experience the magnetic quality of soul love.
“Reflect on your relationship with the person you have selected to soul link with. Are you working hard to earn this person’s love, doing things you do not truly want to do? Are you being pulled between doing what you think the other person wants you to do, so that this person will love you, and fulfilling your own goals, aspirations and soul’s directions? What do you think this person might do, or how might this person feel, if you stop doing the things you’re doing to earn love?
“Sense your heart center, filled with your soul’s magnetic love. It is not what you say or do; it is the love that is the essence of your being that draws people to you and keeps them with you. Fill your heart center with your soul’s love. Soul link and radiate the magnetic quality of love to the person you have chosen. Feel how magnetic your love is to receiving love in return.
“Translate your soul connection into a statement that defines for you the new way you were going to think about this relationship. You might say something such as, ‘I offer you soul love. Is the most important gift I can give you. I now magnetize the highest and best of our relationship has to offer.’
“…Feel the difference between being magnetic to love and working hard for love. When you magnetize love you stay in the center of your being and in touch with your soul. Love flows out from you and draws love to you. You do not send your awareness out to others to anticipate their needs and moods so you can then behave in certain ways to gain their love.
“When you are magnetic to love you stop doing things you do not want to do so others will love you.
“Instead you do things that are loving to yourself.
“When you’re magnetic to love you’re not dependent upon one person as your source of love; you can receive love from anywhere and everywhere.
“You are serene because you know you can experience an abundance of love by radiating soul love that magnetizes love in all of its forms and expressions to you.”
~Sanaya Roman from Soul Love: Awakening Your Heart Centers
EXACTLY what I needed to read/hear…as always…THANK YOU xo
I recognised the writing style and energy of Orin and Sanaya while reading the text….. I love their teachings of universal truths, their validity is always appropriate, no matter when, or where in time you stumble across them.Sending much love and light to al…. Jilli
Beautiful piece of writing Sanaya … and so very true … a lesson worth learning very early on in life. Many blessings to you,
Lynette
I think these pages are sorta magically synchronistic for me, and other people, too. I often seem to read about something that I’m working on in my life, but the writer is stating it clearly and it’s like a helping hand! Thanks!
Very lovely and uplifting way to describe love and how to receive it
I will read this everyday for the next week before I start my day and also at the end of my day. Let it soak in…
Wow! This is amazing. Reading these words is like waking up.
Thank you deeply for posting this profound reminder and practice! Love it!
I have found this to be true totally by “accident”…the times in my life that I’ve attracted love have been when I am living in the moment, humbly and gratefully experiencing the gifts of the Universe, whether it be in nature, or the loving beings that surround me. Thank you for your inspiration.
Beautiful and inspiring! I’m just beginning to love myself so for that I thank you for this testament of how one enables oneself to love oneself by oneself. I am very grateful and shall read over and over. It’s so much harder to rely on someone else validating and loving you. Blessings
I agree with Sues post. “I think these pages are sorta magically synchronistic for me, and other people too. I often seem to read about something that I’m working on in my life, but the writer is stating it clearly and it’s like a helping hand!” Thanks!
Just needed this! Beautifylly written… so soulfull…
Thank you for this lovely information about soul love. It speaks of loves intentions and very much what I needed to be reminded of. Namaste
Miss Roman , you crushed it. Thank you. That was the last piece I needed to tune in my focus. I envy your mind power and your writing is dreamy